Have you already reviewed my article
www.project-management-prepcast.com/failed-pmp-exam
? It contains all my recommendations for someone in your situation who didn't pass at first, and who wants to make it happen next time.
I feel your pain my Friend. I didn't pass the first attempt either, but after further refinement I passed on the second attempt. Attached is some of the things I learned from this endeavor. Don't get discouraged and continue to refine your processes for learning, studying, and acing the PMP.
Training for Project Management Professional (PMP)®, PMI Agile Certified Practitioner (PMI-ACP)®, and Certified Associate in Project Management (CAPM)®